"…The Cock Detox sortaaa began several months ago with a bit of heartache. I was really missing Samurai and wasn’t in the place to be meeting or exploring anyone. I wanted time with myself to focus on me, my career life, to heal, etc. I have several times taken extended leaves from cock, the longest being 18 months, and I always find it very grounding and centering for me. I definitely take time during these periods to actively reconnect with myself sexually/emotionally to digest what I’ve learned/experienced. A couple of weeks ago, I met Flynt and we began seeing and fucking each other but since our sex isn’t ‘cock-centric’ the detox continues. I’m honored to be seeing a beautiful woman, who I have yet to name, but will be introduced soon. Unless she’s hiding something very well, I’m pretty sure our sex won’t involve it either. *giggle*…"
It is none of my goddamned business if a random 400-pound (or 150-pound, or 90-pound) woman is healthy or not. Just as it’s none of my business how much money she makes or how her sex life is going. Health is private. Period.
What I do believe – and what I feel perfectly qualified to proclaim from the rooftops - is that every woman at every weight, shape, and size deserves to be treated with respect, deserves to feel loved, deserves to make her own decisions about her own body. Every woman at every weight, shape, and size deserves to have a fabulous time exploring her personal style and honing her unique look. Every woman at every weight, shape, and size can define health for herself. And, above all, every woman at every weight, shape, and size deserves to be happy. Every woman at every weight, shape, and size CAN be happy. And anyone who claims that happiness is contingent on weight is foolish and misguided, prejudiced and small-minded.
I’m not interested in quantifying the health of other women. I’m not qualified to make decrees about the health of other women. But I’m making it my life’s work to make sure that other women are happy. Happy with their lives, their bodies, their very existences.
Because happiness trumps everything, and we all deserve a piece of it. ALL of us. Including you.